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Comparison, the plague of the youth, and the mindset millionaires are disgusted by.

  In a world dominated by social media, professional competition, and family expectations, it’s easy to fall into the trap of comparison. Whether it’s measuring success against a colleague’s promotion, feeling inadequate next to a seemingly perfect sibling, or comparing lifestyles with influencers online, this habit often leads to dissatisfaction. As Theodore Roosevelt wisely said, “Comparison is the thief of joy.” But how do we escape this cycle and find true contentment? The answer lies in shifting focus inward—through mindfulness and meditation. The basic premise: You can’t feel peace, you can’t stop comparing yourself to others until you start working on yourself, joy in order to not be stolen has to come from somewhere first you gotta be able to create happiness with achievements. Comparison isn’t always bad. In small doses, it can inspire us to grow. But when it becomes a constant pressure, it turns toxic. 1. Workplace Pressure Feeling like you’re falling behind compared to ...

Square Breathing: An hidden technique

 In today’s fast-paced world, stress and anxiety are constant companions for everybody. Whether you’re preparing for a big presentation, dealing with personal challenges, or just feeling overwhelmed, finding ways to calm your mind is essential. One powerful yet simple technique that can help is square breathing

What is Square Breathing?

Square breathing, also known as box breathing, is a deep breathing technique that involves inhaling, holding, exhaling, and holding again—all for equal counts. The process forms a mental “square,” which is how it gets its name.

This method is widely used by athletes, military personnel, and mindfulness practitioners to regulate stress and enhance concentration. By focusing on your breath in a structured way, you activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which helps lower stress and improve clarity.

How to Practice Square Breathing

Square breathing is easy to learn and can be done anywhere. Follow these steps:

1. Inhale deeply through your nose for a count of four.

2. Hold your breath for a count of four.

3. Exhale slowly through your mouth for a count of four.

4. Hold again for a count of four before repeating the cycle.

Repeat this process for four to five minutes or until you feel a sense of calm.

Benefits 

Practicing square breathing regularly can have several benefits, including:

1. Reduces Stress and Anxiety

By slowing your breath and focusing on controlled breathing, you signal your body to relax, reducing cortisol levels (the stress hormone).

2. Improves Focus and Mental Clarity

Because it requires concentration, square breathing helps sharpen your focus, making it great for studying, working, or preparing for high-pressure situations.

3. Enhances Emotional Regulation

If you often find yourself reacting impulsively to situations, this technique can help you pause, reflect, and respond more calmly.

4. Boosts Oxygen Flow and Lung Capacity

Controlled breathing improves oxygen exchange, which can enhance energy levels and overall respiratory health.

When to Use Square Breathing

Square breathing can be beneficial in many situations, including:

Before a stressful meeting or presentation

During moments of anxiety or panic

Before bedtime to promote relaxation

While meditating or practicing mindfulness

Before or after intense exercise to regulate breathing

Final Thoughts

Square breathing is a simple yet powerful tool that anyone can use to manage stress, improve focus, and enhance overall well-being. By incorporating this technique into your daily routine, you’ll find yourself feeling more in control, calm, and centered.

Next time you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a moment to breathe in a square, you might be surprised at how much better you feel.

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